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Monday, September 13, 2010

BFN

It was better getting the news from my husband than from a nurse.

23 comments:

  1. oh no. i'm so so sorry, jane. :( i wish this wasn't the case. take some time for yourself. hugs.

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  2. I'm really sorry. I know you were "ready" for it, but it's still never fun.

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  3. You are such a trooper, and I know there is hope on the horizon, but I absolutely HATE THIS for you. I'm so sorry Jane.

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  4. I am so so sorry for this BFN. They are never easy, but I am glad that news was easier to take from your husband than from the nurse at the clinic.
    I had one cycle with low fertilization and slow growing embryos. We have done better since then for a variety of reasons (one of which was switching RE's). I am happy to give you more details if that might be helpful. Please let me know.
    Thinking of you....

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  5. Oh, I'm just so sorry. I really am. ((hugs))

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  6. I am so sorry. That is rotten news to hear from anyone.

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  7. I'm so sorry. I've been there- that phone call stinks no matter who's on the other line. (HUG)

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  8. I just clicked over from your comment on Adeles blog. I'm so sorry, even if the blow was softer by hearing it from your husband, it's still rottern news to absorb. (hugs)

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  9. I'm so sorry. It totally sucks arse.

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  10. I had Adam call me with the news last cycle. I found that I was much more comfortable when I found that be were not pregnant from my husband than the nurse as well. So sorry you are going through this, but I feel your pain. Let me know if you need anything. HUGS

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  11. I am so sorry. I know how badly you wanted this to work, and how much of yourself you poured into this cycle.

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  12. ah jane. i'm soooo sorry. sending you big big big hugs through the blogosphere. as you've mentioned before to me, i'm only a hop-skip away here in nyc. if you need ANYTHING, please let me know. xoxoxoxo.

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  13. F*ck! Jane, I am so awfully sorry! My heart is breaking for you. *hugs*

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  14. I am so sorry...no matter how much you *prepare* yourself, a BFN fucking sucks. I'm so sorry. You have much to be optimistic about and learned so much during this cycle. I know they can tweak your protocol and hopefully next time you will have a much better result.

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  15. Oh Jane, I'm so so sorry. Sending you tons of love and hugs, and know we're all thinking about you.

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  16. Oh, noo!:((( I am so very sorry, Jane! Sending you much love.

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  18. So sorry to hear this Jane. I've been away from bloggy land for a few weeks and just got caught up. so sorry to hear this, sending positive thoughts and prayers your way.

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